Bicurious and no idea what to do!Bicurious Men

A confused reader asks

I often find myself daydreaming about penises. I have never had any gay experiences in my life, nor am I attracted to men. I just keep thinking about what a huge turn on it would be to kneel down and take a big, hard penis in my mouth. To hold it.. to lick it.. to play with it.. I don’t usually have a face attached to the penis nor am I attracted to any of the men in my life. Does this make me gay? Bi sexual? Bi Curious? HELP!

Let’s begin by dropping the labels. It doesn’t make you anything. You’re just a sexual being who is looking for adventure. Curiosity is quite normal and very healthy. Don’t think about it τοο much!

Want my advice?

If you find yourself constantly thinking and daydreaming about it, why not just try it??

There are thousands, maybe even millions, of men online looking for bisexual fun. My advice is to try this with someone who is in the same situation as you. There are tons of bi-curious men on gCruise looking to try new things. Give it a shot and see how it goes! Be warned! Sometimes the fantasy itself is very different from reality. Start off by chatting with some of these men. There’s a great video chat feature that you can use and see how you feel being naked and getting off with another man. Have fun and stay safe!

Some people will suggest going to an Adult Movie theater. I’m very against this. It’s simply not a safe way to explore. Yes, a lot of men are there to play with other men, but this alternative simply goes against everything I believe. Safety first!

What are your thoughts? Do you agree or disagree with my advice? Should he try this? Any thoughts?