having sex on the first dateI’m conflicted, I’ve been talking to a man online for almost 6 months now and we’ll be meeting up soon. I feel like I know him very well and I’m afraid that the second I see him I’m going to want to jump his bones!!

We’ve been flirting a lot lately. I don’t want him to get the wrong impression of me, I’m actually a “good girl”. I also don’t want him to be disappointed if we don’t have sex. I’m conflicted! HELP!

This is another question that doesn’t have a definite YES or NO answer. I feel that the best answer here is go with whatever feels right. If you feel comfortable enough to sleep with him on the first date and don’t have any doubts in your mind, chances are, you won’t regret it afterwards. If you have the slightest doubt, try to restrain yourself from getting intimate until you are positive there are no doubts. Doubts usually turn into regrets.

I wish I can be more definite, unfortunately, every first date, every situation, differs greatly.