I’m conflicted, I’ve been talking to a man online for almost 6 months now and we’ll be meeting up soon. I feel like I know him very well and I’m afraid that the second I see him I’m going to want to jump his bones!!
We’ve been flirting a lot lately. I don’t want him to get the wrong impression of me, I’m actually a “good girl”. I also don’t want him to be disappointed if we don’t have sex. I’m conflicted! HELP!
This is another question that doesn’t have a definite YES or NO answer. I feel that the best answer here is go with whatever feels right. If you feel comfortable enough to sleep with him on the first date and don’t have any doubts in your mind, chances are, you won’t regret it afterwards. If you have the slightest doubt, try to restrain yourself from getting intimate until you are positive there are no doubts. Doubts usually turn into regrets.
I wish I can be more definite, unfortunately, every first date, every situation, differs greatly.
Paul - October 30, 2014 @ 09:57
I wish all women were true to themselves and had sex with whomever, whenever they wanted. Comments like the previous reader’s are the ones that prevent women from doing what they want. This is what’s wrong with the world today. Everyone is worried about what everyone else will think and say. Just do what feels right! Go with it! Enjoy yourself and your sexuality. Eventually, you’ll be much older and you’ll find that your options are not only limited but non-existent. Go nuts girl! Have fun!
Gloria - October 30, 2014 @ 00:20
I don’t think anyone should have any sexual contact on the first date.
It degrades women and eventually, we ALL regret it.