As an avid BBW lover myself, I’ve been on every BBW singles site there is. I’ve tried them all and have had some success on multiple sites. However, there was always one that stood out from the rest in terms of how quickly I was able to find an actual BBW hookup. On average, it usually took me, an average looking Joe, about 2-3 weeks to actually score a BBW hookup online. However, when I joined AFF, this quickly changed. I can honestly say that, at the moment, I’m scoring with a sexy BBW at will. I’d like to go into some detail about how I do this and why it works.
The One Site that Always Works for BBW Hookups
I’ve always been a big fan of AdultFriendFinder. I’ve been a member here for over a decade and have always made sure my membership stays active. When you’re looking for pure casual sex with a BBW or otherwise, there’s no better option than AdultFriendFinder. If you still haven’t set up a profile here, I strongly urge you to do so. You’ll meet more women here than on any other site or app. There’s truly no comparison.
The reality is that a site that is geared towards “BBW Hookups” is probably not the most inviting to most actual BBWs. I’ll get into more detail on this a little later on in this article. But I definitely urge you to avoid any site that is geared towards BBWs. AdultFriendFinder is a general adult dating site that is open to everyone, every body type.
Tips to Hook up with a BBW Online
Once you’re signed up on AdultFriendFinder and have your membership activated you’ll want to spend a little time setting up your profile. The meatier the better. Photos are definitely a must. In my personal opinion, you’ll want to avoid posting any nudes. It’s always good to leave something for your private chat.
Once your profile is filled out, you’ll want to set your search filters to show you all the BBWs within a distance you feel comfortable traveling to. The higher the range, the better your odds of scoring tonight. Search for members that are online right now.
Once you’ve set up your search, it’s time to start contacting members. Personally, when I’m simply looking for a hookup or a BBW hookup, I try not to be too picky. At the end of the day, they’re all beautiful. In my view, the ones that are ONLINE NOW and eager to meet are always somehow even more beautiful.
When you craft your message don’t mention the fact that you’re into BBWs. This is a mistake too many men are making and it’s costing them some unforgettable experiences. Tell her how beautiful she is. Give her the attention she usually doesn’t get offline. This is one instance where compliments can go a long way. I usually discourage men from giving women compliments on hookup sites. In this situation, however, it’s a good idea to break the ice with a compliment.
Taking Your BBW Hookup from Online to Offline
If you follow the steps I mentioned above, there is no way you won’t get a response. I personally assure you that you’ll see more messages in your inbox than you’ve ever seen on any hookup site, BBW or not.
The key to taking things offline and bringing your BBW hookup into the real world is building trust. We want to work quick as we want to land a BBW hookup tonight not next month. Build trust off the bat. Tell her your name, share some insight on your Social Media pages, let her see you’re a decent dude and meeting up with you is safe. Pictures of you with friends, pets, etc, will usually establish a trust factor fast.
Once you’ve got her trust, tell her you’d be willing to travel to her. Asking a woman to come to your place on the first hookup is not a good idea. Also, asking to go to her house is probabaly a bad idea. Some will gladly invite you over on their own, but most women will want to meet you somewhere public the first time you meet up. Say something like “Is there somewhere we can hang out and grab a drink together near your place? I’d love to spend some time with you tonight”. I’m usually able to maintain 4-5 conversations at the same time on AFF and usually, within 2-3 hours, I’ve not only got a woman that’s ready to meet up with me, but I usually have to decide which one to meet tonight and which one to keep on the side for tomorrow.
If you follow the steps above, are willing to increase the range you’re willing to travel, and are not too picky about who you initiate contact with, you should have no problem enjoying a BBW hookup as soon as tonight.
